Dearie, take it easy.

Monica: Ross, how long have you been planning this wedding?
Ross   : I don't know. A month?
Monica: Emily has probably been planning it since she was five!
             Ever since the first time she took a pillowcase,
             and hung it off the back of her head.
             That's what we did!
             We dreamed about the perfect wedding, and the perfect place,
             with the perfect four-tiered wedding cake,
             with the little people on top.

             But the most important part is,
             that we had the perfect guy
             who understood just how important all that other stuff was.

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I don't want some four-tiered wedding cake, and all the perfect wedding craps.
But I guess, to find the right person who understands what is important to you is.........

almost impossible.